Reasons Why I Hate to Love.

03.19.10

Lizzy on March 19, 2010 @ 12:44 pm

I love it, you speaking the truth!

Love is a word that much use but only a few really know the feeling of real Love.

Myra Zenobia on March 19, 2010 @ 12:50 pm

I felt that….

PREACH!

kyoko on March 19, 2010 @ 1:19 pm

…word. Love is crazy.I wanna find real love!!

Jill Jacks on March 19, 2010 @ 1:41 pm

Dont it always seem to go
That you don’t know what you’ve got
Till it’s gone
They paved paradise
And put up a parking lot

“Big Yellow Taxi” Joni Mitchell

too real.

Lex on March 19, 2010 @ 1:49 pm

love is great.

Vanessa on March 19, 2010 @ 3:48 pm

I’d say touche but I present no argument. I see myself quoting you in the future. Tho… the need for love is a paradox. Is anyone really considered complete without love in their lives? We aren’t programmed to be alone… & it’s possible that our “glass” can only be topped off with love. I believe the dilemma is that some ppl are so engrossed with the idea of what they love should be that they fail to realize love is the person, not the ideal.

Vanessa on March 19, 2010 @ 3:49 pm

“..engrossed with the idea of what they THINK love should be…”

bek on March 19, 2010 @ 4:02 pm

wow i love it. your amazing
“get a life before you get in love”

Preach!

Speechie on March 19, 2010 @ 4:45 pm

@Vanessa I agree… I definitely feel like it’s the articulation of what love is and could be that people misinterpret… so many people identify love as what they think it should be.. that they become programmed… and they forget that the possibilities are endless..like any other art form.

STEF. on March 19, 2010 @ 5:03 pm

my man….I went through this same thing, & you’re completely right. All you can do in the end tho is shine the light on those men & women doing the positive thing. Stressing yourself over the dumb shit is pointless. As far as finding that perfect one, don’t even trip. You may have not met her yet ’cause either she’s not ready for you or you’re not ready for her. Either way, all will unfold as it’s supposed to. Believe it. Peace gawd.

soloseven on March 19, 2010 @ 10:22 pm

The only fact that i know about love, is that like matter, it always exist. And like matter, once created it can not be destroyed, only manipulated and transformed. Once you love, if its real, it will always connect you to that person, EVEN when your heart loves them no more.

Love is energy, and cannot be vanquished. I am blessed to have the love I’ve got.

On the other hand, these kids wouldnt recognize love if it packed them a home made lunch, gave them the remote when they got home, and changed their oil in the winter.

God bless

SHAHKA on March 22, 2010 @ 8:18 am

minus the “stop listening to music” and “hate to love” part, i can see where you’re coming from. we live and we grow there’s no manual to all these experiences & tests we go through

maggie on March 26, 2010 @ 9:01 pm

i’ve reached a point in my life that the only person i can trust and truly love is myself and the family that brought me here. anyone else’s love is to be earned, not just handed to. i think people make such a huge mistake by making love a gift and not a privilege. love and respect to me are of the same family, but one is selfless and has no underlying incentive. it just is. by the same token, to me, you gotta earn someone’s love. it’s those who throw it around like a joint who make it cheap.

it’s a guilty till proven innocent thing from here on out. i grew up with this romantic bullshit instilled in my head by cartoons but this is the real world. love is a process, not a goal. love is THE process. happiness is the goal.

two cents.

Eli on March 29, 2010 @ 8:29 pm

Finally, someone that get’s it.. It’s crazy that you bring this issue up. Just the other night I was in shock to find out that the same girls that always come to me for relationship advice and cry over being hurt/disrespected by men, were the same girls flaunting themselves inappropriately instead of showing their real value. If they only knew how much they’re really worth.. & Men too have the tendencies to give false ideas of what they really want, counteracting against what’s really important to them. They get this idea that women love the “bad guy”. Most girls do.. but if a bad guy means acting like a complete asshole, then I say no thanks. But I can only speak for myself. After being in two serious relationships, I’ve learned that I really can’t trust anyone & I can only trust myself.. Respect/trust is something people need to EARN. As far as not being “ready” for love.. You have to love yourself before you can love anyone.. Instead of depending on someone else for your own happiness. This applies to both men and women. & just like some women are really just BXTCHES, some men are really just ASSHOLES. I’ve even had a girl tell me once that she acts so promiscous because of how she’s been hurt and that’s how men act towards her. It goes both ways. I can only speak from my experience.. Someone I use to see wants me back in his life now.. after the fact that I’m gone and now realizes what he’s missing. Despite the bad relationships, I’ve stayed true to myself.. I don’t disrespect myself or my body & blame it on a bad relationship to validate it. I would never sell out just for the sake have being “in love”..
& I would tell you or anyone for that matter, to do the same. But I’m not too worried about you.. You it down to a T. Speechie knows all. LOL.

Love will find you, the second you at least expect it.. The second you let go. Keep doin’ you.. like you been. Everything else will fall into place.

Jessi on March 31, 2010 @ 9:22 pm

Truth.

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